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After reading quite a few articles about women in the church being hurt by their husbands, I thought this article from Kyria.com was quite timely:

Helping Abused Women

Once abused, now Joyce Holt is serving other desperate women
Mary DeMuth

Joyce Holt never expected to be a victim of abuse. Twice.

At age 22, she married a man who wasn’t a Christian. Within weeks of the wedding, he began to tell her she was worthless and stupid. In the midst of arguments, he would punch her with her own fists.

Feeling she had nowhere to turn, she stayed with him. Until one night when he pulled out his pistol. Joyce watched in disbelief and panic as he toyed with the gun and eyed her.

Something snapped within her. “After he got out the gun,” Joyce says, “I realized I’d done nothing that would have warranted him shooting me.” She sought a divorce.

Read: Memphis Pastor Accused Of Trying To Run Over Wife

Eight years later, Joyce married again. She felt certain this man would treat her well since he was a Christian.

But just as before, within months this man began to verbally abuse her. After one fight, he said, “What are you going to do? Leave me? Everything you have is half mine now.”

Mustering her courage, Joyce confronted him. To her relief, he recommitted his life to Christ and joined a men’s accountability group. But not long after that, the abuse escalated. He choked her, trapped her in rooms, isolated her from family and friends, and berated and demeaned her. Joyce spiraled into depression.

“I constantly begged God to end my life,” she admits.

Arise and Go

Without her husband’s knowledge, she began to see a counselor, who told her that she was living in an abusive home. But it wasn’t until a women’s retreat that she finally saw clearly. “I realized that every year when I’d attend that women’s retreat, I’d beg God to save my marriage. And every year I was at the same point of despair,” she says. “God finally got through to me.”

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